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I just took a vacay. I didn’t realize….
Taking a true break from work is more necessary than ever.
Sherman Mohr | INSEAD Blue Ocean Strategy Certified Practitioner and Over 50 Pro
"Every now and then go away, have a little relaxation, for when you come back to your work your judgment will be surer. Go some distance away, because then the work appears smaller and more of it can be taken in at a glance, and a lack of harmony and proportion is more readily seen."
— Leonardo da Vinci, Polymath and Artist
I Just Took a Vacay. I Didn't Realize....
Taking a true break from work is more necessary than ever.
I’m just back from a vacation. At first, I categorized it as a boondoggle. However, as I prepared for this feature, I quickly learned that I’d used the incorrect word.
“A boondoggle is a wasteful, unnecessary, or impractical project, often funded by the government or corporations, that consumes excessive time and money while producing little to no real value.” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boondoggle
A government or corporation didn’t fund me. I didn’t waste time or money that produced little value.
What I did receive was a prescriptive break from reality that I would recommend to anyone.
Here are some details as to the sad state of the US workforce as it pertains to breaks from work.
When you look at how work is structured in the United States, time off is rarely treated as an essential operational rhythm. Instead, it is treated as a luxury, an afterthought, or a potential liability.
Whether you run an independent practice, lead a team, or work within an organization, the data on how Americans rest, or fail to rest, reveals a stark contrast between our biological need for recovery and our workplace norms.
The United States stands alone among developed economies: it is the only advanced nation with zero federally mandated paid annual leave or paid sick days.
The National Average: According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS), roughly 23% to 29% of civilian wage and salary workers have zero access to paid vacation or paid leave. This leaves 35 to 40 million workers without any safety net to step away without losing income.
The Structural Divide: Access tracks directly with leverage and compensation. In the top wage quartile and corporate management, over 90% of employees receive paid time off. In the lower wage quartiles, service sectors, and contract/gig roles, access routinely drops below 50%.
Having days on paper does not translate into taking time off in practice.
Days Left on the Table: Research from Pew Research Center and The Harris Poll indicates that between 45% and 75% of American workers do not use all of their allotted PTO. Historical tracking by the U.S. Travel Association’s Project: Time Off found hundreds of millions of earned vacation days are forfeited every year.
The "Working Vacation": According to findings from the American Psychological Association (APA) and QuickBooks Time show that more than 50% of employees actively check messages, take calls, or monitor emails while supposedly taking time off.
The Unlimited PTO Paradox: Companies offering "unlimited PTO" often see employees take fewer days off than those with fixed allowances. Without an explicit allocation, there is no unambiguous permission structure to unplug.
When workers are asked why they avoid taking time off, the answers are structural, not personal:
The Rebound Penalty: Pew Research highlights that the leading reason people skip vacations is the fear of falling behind. Taking four days off frequently requires working 60-hour weeks immediately before and after to compensate. This was certainly the case with me. If I took off, there were tasks no one else was trained or assigned to in my absence. This is where many small business owners operate.
Understaffed Operations: Lean staffing models mean an employee’s absence immediately shifts the burden onto peers, fostering guilt and friction.
Optics and Layoff Anxiety: Younger workers and contractors frequently report concern that stepping away signals low commitment or weakens job security during corporate restructuring. I dealt with this a lot as a new AVP in the banking world. The culture I worked in did not foster a healthy look at time off.
The Center for Economic and Policy Research (CEPR) famously coined the term "No-Vacation Nation" to describe the U.S. when benchmarked against peers in the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD).

For comparison, the typical private-sector U.S. worker with one year of tenure receives roughly 10–14 days of PTO—less than half the legally mandated floor in most European countries.
The Downside: Chronic Burnout & Cognitive Decline
Health Costs: Research from the World Health Organization (WHO) links sustained long hours and lack of recovery to elevated risks of stroke, cardiovascular disease, chronic sleep deficits, and mental health crises.
Presenteeism: Stepping away is essential for high-level creative problem-solving and executive strategy. Grinding through exhaustion leads to "presenteeism", hours logged with rapidly decaying decision quality.
The Upside: Flexibility & Earning Ceilings
Operational Agility: Fewer federal mandates lower fixed operational overhead, giving businesses more room to pivot, hire, and scale rapidly.
Higher Cash Baselines: U.S. professionals often trade mandatory leave policies for significantly higher gross earning power and equity upside compared to European peers.
Accrual Equity: Where rollover policies exist, unused PTO acts as a form of deferred compensation or a personal cash cushion paid out upon departure.
A break is not an act of self-indulgence; it is regular maintenance on your primary revenue-generating asset, that being your own focus and judgment. If your business model or career setup cannot withstand your stepping away, that isn't dedication. It is an operational bottleneck.
I spent nearly 8 years without a vacation. When I was away, I was emailing, reviewing texts, and quite often distracted. I spent Christmas eves and Thanksgivings dealing with issues. I’m not complaining and believe me, I know how fortunate I am to have taken this last week off. I’m here now advocating for the time needed to rest and recharge. I haven’t been truly off the clock for years. Part of that comes with the burden of company ownership.
What I’m building now allows for the flexibility to take time when needed and desired. Most of the grunt work is now automated and my relationship with AI agents and the task they perform for me is truly life improving.
Schedule your time. Escape! You’ll come back better that ever. The regulated mind is more efficient and healthier.

Walking into Alyse Beach on last week’s Vacay
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Over 50 Pro Featured Resources of the Week:
1. Rest: Why You Get More Done When You Work Less by Alex Soojung-Kim Pang
Format: Book / Framework
Core Focus: Deliberate rest as an active skill rather than passive couch time. Pang draws on neuroscience, historical case studies (Darwin, Churchill, Stephen King), and organizational research to demonstrate that high performers treat rest as the primary driver of creative breakthrough and cognitive stamina, not a reward earned after exhaustion.
Best For: Professionals who struggle with the guilt of stepping away and need an intellectual, productivity-aligned case for rest.
2. Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski, PhD & Amelia Nagoski, DMA
Format: Book / Practical Science
Core Focus: Completing the physiological stress cycle. The authors show that removing a work stressor (e.g., closing your laptop on Friday or boarding a vacation flight) does not automatically clear the physical stress response from your body. They outline concrete physical and behavioral protocols (movement, deep breathing, creative expression, social connection) needed to signal your nervous system that you are safe.
Best For: Anyone who takes time off but finds their mind and body remain physically tense, wired, or anxious.
3. The DRAMMA Model for Work Recovery (Newman, Tay, & Diener)
Format: Research Framework / Diagnostic Tool
Core Focus: Grounded in occupational psychology, the DRAMMA model identifies six psychological mechanisms essential for true off-job recovery: Detachment, Relaxation, Autonomy, Mastery, Meaning, and Affiliation. Research shows that breaks fail to restore energy when they lack psychological detachment (checking Slack) or autonomy (running errands you resent).
Best For: Designing a weekend, vacation, or sabbatical itinerary that actually recharges cognitive bandwidth rather than draining it with passive distraction.
4. Do Nothing: How to Break Away from Overworking, Overdoing, and Underliving by Celeste Headlee
Format: Book / Cultural Investigation
Core Focus: Deconstructing toxic productivity and time-anxiety. Headlee explores how industrialization and technological connectivity trained us to view every unfilled hour as wasted time. She provides practical frameworks for reclaiming genuine leisure, stepping off the optimization treadmill, and leaving time unscripted.
Best For: Readers caught in the "hustle trap" who find themselves scheduling and optimizing even their leisure time and breaks.
5. The Sabbatical Project (DJ DiDonna & Matt Bloom)
Format: Research Hub & Practical Guides (thesabbaticalproject.org)
Core Focus: Evidence-based research on extended career breaks, sabbaticals, and extended time off. Led by researchers formerly affiliated with Harvard and Notre Dame, the project examines hundreds of real-world sabbaticals to categorize outcomes, recovery phases, and structural best practices (e.g., navigating identity shifts away from job titles, structuring finances, and re-entering the workforce).
Best For: Anyone considering a longer pause, sabbatical, or career transition break rather than a standard one-week vacation.
Favorite Stories of the Week:
Here are examples of people who changed their lives as a result of their vacations.
1. Stefan Sagmeister: The Seven-Year Studio Shutdown
The Story: Renowned graphic designer Stefan Sagmeister runs a celebrated design firm in New York City. After years of producing high-profile work for musicians and corporate clients, he realized his studio’s output had become repetitive and predictable. To break the creative rut, he instituted a radical policy: every seven years, he completely closes the studio for a full year of time off and personal exploration.
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The Impact: During his first extended break in Bali, away from client demands, Sagmeister rekindled his creative curiosity. He noted that the ideas, design languages, and experiments born during that year of time off fueled the studio’s output and elevated client project fees for the subsequent seven years.
2. Bill Gates: The Biannual "Think Week"
The Story: During the height of building Microsoft, Bill Gates instituted a ritual called "Think Week." Twice a year, he took a full seven-day break from all corporate operations, meetings, and digital communications, retreating alone to a quiet cabin on a lake in the Pacific Northwest.
The Impact: Rather than reacting to daily operational fires, Gates used this disconnected time to read, walk in nature, and let ideas incubate. Gates credited these uninterrupted retreats with restoring his mental bandwidth and yielding critical long-term strategy shifts—most notably Microsoft’s famous 1995 "The Internet Tidal Wave" memo, which repositioned the company’s entire software architecture.
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3. Xiu Ling: A Burnout Break Turned Creative Rebirth
The Story: Documented by The Sabbatical Project (a research initiative led by former Harvard and Notre Dame researchers), Xiu Ling was a corporate professional in Singapore who hit severe chronic burnout after a decade of pushing through relentless work demands. Facing declining mental and physical health, she took what was initially planned as a two-month break to travel and recuperate.
The Impact: Stepping away from her daily environment allowed her nervous system to settle. Giving herself permission to rest and connect with people on the road stripped away her career guilt. The break expanded into a full year where she reconnected with physical well-being, took up painting, and rebuilt the emotional stamina and clarity needed to return to work on her own terms.
4. Dorie Clark: The Annual Month-Off Experiment
The Story: Dorie Clark, a Duke executive education professor and author of The Long Game, realized that constantly operating in "reactive mode" was draining her creative reserves. To reset, she established a policy of blocking an entire month off her calendar a full year in advance, warning clients early and refusing all work commitments.
Fast Company
The Impact: Clark reported that stepping off the treadmill for extended blocks was vital for regaining deep mental clarity and reigniting energy for original work. The extended pause created the white space necessary to write books, compose creative projects, and return to client work with renewed focus and sharper strategic direction.
Final Thoughts

Once Again, opportunities arise with technological changes.
Nearly 8 years without a real unplug from reality. Lots of fun on various trips, don’t get me wrong. However, there is nothing like an agenda free escape where the calendar is loose and the friends are numerous. Whatever your version of escape is, data proves that time away fosters better thinking, more peace, and gains in productivity.
Plan your escapes. Build them into your life if possible.
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